……….and so is Trey Songz
PLEASE! Men and women,
there is no Love like the type Olivia and Fitzgerald claim to share. A lot of
people believe if it doesn't cause you heart wrenching pain, take you on a wild
emotional roller coaster, make you scream, wail, promise to set all humans
ablaze until you are physically exhausted and doubt you can live life without
the person then it is not true love! Love shouldn't feel like a continuous heart
attack please.
This is why a lady will
watch a man she is dating, marry another woman but he still comes back to her claiming
she is the one he loves and needs so she settles for 2nd place and
even though he treats her like number 1, it doesn't change her status to ‘Mrs’
and she is left being loyal to nothing; and yet the one he doesn’t love
produces child after child while you agree to abort the child ‘conceived by
mistake’ because it would be “controversial to have a child with her now and
what would people say?” Is that righttt?
Love is NOT that hard,
dramatic or volatile! It’s not a concept or stray idea you can manipulate or
claim to innovate to suit society’s imaginations. Fitzgerald doesn’t love
Olivia Pope (neither does she love him) and just because they have been hooked
on each other for years doesn’t mean women out there should hold on to hope
that the man they love ‘would come home’ Wake up Darling! Writers have got you
all twisted around their imaginative fingers and while your lives get ruined,
they get more cash in the bank.
This isn’t about the women
alone, when you hear or experience some cases and you can’t help but wonder if
the man is bound by a spell.
Because you’ve known
each other for years, the sex is great, you’re comfortable with each other, you hang out sometimes and you think alike doesn’t mean ZIT if there are many
other things wrong. It may have worked for some couples but are they happy? And
do you think it is ok to agree to a forever with someone you’ve given
everything and gives you nothing back? And you have your heart in your mouth every
time because you fear they can get up and walk away from you and your life will
be all over.
Like I always say, I
don’t have all the answers and I would never claim not to have been stupid in
the past about what I thought love was however I choose not to be ignorant
anymore and neither should you. Stop giving people power they don’t deserve and
don’t let them spoil your heart till it’s dark, bitter and unable to see the
good in the world. If you don’t have a faith that guides you on what true love
is then use your common sense and see that SAY YOU LOVE ME + TREAT ME BADLY
(consistently causing me pain)= YOU DON’T LOVE ME
C’ est fini!
