With empty hands

I remember on the 6th of January I said “January will soon end!”, I was told to calm down however it feels like it’s been just a ‘few hours’ since I made that statement and the 1st month in this new year has already ended.

January is generally perceived as the hardest month to conquer in the year mainly due to stiff cash flow and slowness in shifting gears from the end of one year to starting another. I asked myself “what did you achieve this January?” And I know that’s a question a lot of people would ask themselves too; some would smile and others would not.

I’ve discovered that most people are motivated by what they get in exchange for what they give; wages for time spent at work; money for product/service offered; roaring laughter in response to a joke shared; affection in return for love expressed and so on.

You might feel like you’ve already put in a lot this year or at least set in place a fantastic road map to ensure you have a tremendously profiting year therefore it is one of the hardest things to stand with your hands empty; to be afraid that your super plans might just end up being plans! Or that you didn’t get anything out of what you put in? And truthfully it isn’t all the time that someone’s encouraging words make sense; you’d rather they kept quiet and leave you alone to enjoy your moments of anger and self-criticism.

But when the ‘mourning’ phase is over kindly get up and actually do something, moving in the right direction to accomplish your goals; I learnt that the longer you stay nursing any negative condition, the longer it takes to cure it.

I’m actually encouraging myself with this post and hope that whoever reads this and who wasn’t too impressed with what January left in their hands would also be encouraged; really if you gave up so early what would you do the rest of the year?!

Get up, have faith and reach out to grab what you want in your hands.